And We're Off! Our Family NomadingYear Begins
Getting ready to take off for a year of travel means a lot of activity around the departure date! With our departure from Austin, Texas set for June 22nd there was a lot to do in the final weeks. Our dear friends from the kids' school hosted a going away party for us, complete with Brazilian capirinhas. It was a wonderful way to be able to say goodbye to more people than we would have been able to have individual time with. The girls got to spend some final moments swimming, dancing and playing basketball and ping pong with their friends, and Tony and I got to have some fun conversations with other parents. It may have been somewhat awkward for Tony since he is not able to do the whole trip with us. Both he and I answered many questions about how this would work and when he would visit. I think for a lot of families it is difficult to imagine being separated for this length of time. Ideally, Tony would join us, but unfortunately in his particular career as a state employee, telecommuting has not yet become acceptable.
After a very lovely evening, we turned our attentions to the final preparations. The addition of our house needed to be readied to rent. A renter had already been found through our school community and we needed to remove all of our personal belongings and get the place clean. I was thinking it shouldn't be too difficult since we had only lived in the addition ourselved for 2 years but it is amazing how many personal items and dust can accumulate in even a short time. As everything got emptied out, Mia and her friend, Bianca (who will be joining us in Brazil) had a grand time climbing to the top shelves of the closet and peering over the walls! It is our hope to break even with the money we spend for rent in Brazil and what we bring in in Austin.
I tried each day to do a few hours of preparation and be sure to include some fun in the day. Since the kids were already out of school it was too much to ask for all work and no play. We spent time visiting our favorite swimming spots in Austin, including Deep Eddy and Barton Springs. During these last few days our oldest daughter turned 16 so we also had a birthday celebration and attended an outdoor concert.
Since our new renter will be sharing the kitchen with Tony, my cleaning efforts needed to extend to other parts of the house. I'm really not a great housekeeper! I'd rather be working or homeschooling than mopping. As a result, I was pulling things out of the refrigerator that looked like the mummified remains of King Tut!
On to packing.
One of the biggest challenges with this particular trip is that we are starting out in the summer of the U.S. and moving on to the winter of Brazil. We hear Florianopolis is having one of it's coldest winters and friends have told us to bring full winter clothing. I have been determined to keep everyone to one suitcase and one carry on with the exception of my daughter's viola. The cello did not make the cut! In order to do this and have access to summer clothes for the first leg and winter clothes for the second leg I did this: I had each of us pack our summer things and as many winter things as possible into our alloted bags. Then I mailed a box to Connecticut with our winter coats and a few sundry items like school books. We have been using our summer clothes on the east coast. When we depart the east coast on July 7 we will unpack our winter coats and put our summer clothes into the box. I will mail the box of summer clothes to Brazil (since we won't need them for a couple of months). That way hopefully we will save some money. I found it was pretty difficult to weigh our bags at home and only hoped we were within the 50 lb limit. The picture you see is everything we took for 4 people to stay away for a year (minus the box of winter clothes).
With everything ready to go, we awakened at 6 am and Tony drove us to the airport. We said a short goodbye since we would see Tony a few days later on the East Coast and moved towards check-in only to find that one of our bags was overweight by 6 pounds. Rather than pay the fine we did a frantic re-arrangement of stuff from the offending bag to another slightly underweight bag and were able to get everyone into compliance. The flight from Austin to Dallas was uneventful. Unfortunately the travel took a turn at this point.
We had a scheduled 3 hour layover in Dallas. This turned into a 4, then 5, then 6 hour layover as the flights were delayed for weather in Boston. Next, we were told the landing gear on the plane was broken. Finally, we chose to spend the night in Dallas when it became clear that our arrival in Boston would be well after public transportation shut down. This was the right move as it turned out other people waited much longer and eventually the flight did not go at all. We tried to make the most of our night in a somewhat seedy hotel with a final meal of Tex-Mex food and breakfast of Texas shaped waffles!
We were very happy to finally arrive in Boston that afternoon where we stayed with cousins for 2 nights. It is so wonderful to be able to reconnect with family and for the kids to have a sense of how there cousins live on the other side of the U.S. We were greeted with cool temperatures and rain. Although all of our East Coast friends were feeling down about the un-summerlike temperatures, I was overjoyed to be out of the Texas 100+ heat! Our cousins live on a lovely pond and there is a feeling you are in the wilderness even though in reality it is the suburbs. The kids also enjoyed feeding their chickens, seeing their huge vegetable garden and eating my sister-in-law's homemade yogurt, strawberry syrup and fresh eggs.
From the suburbs of Northborough, Massachusetts we made our way to the town of Cohasset. Cohasset is on the Massachusetts shoreline north of Cape Cod and is the town that was used in the filming of "The Witches of Eastwick" with Jack Nicholson. It is the quintessential New England shore town with lovely homes and gardens. Here we stayed with an old college friend of mine and her family. My 8 year old was completely impressed when our 10 year old hostess told us she owned her own sailboat. We walked to the end of their block where a boat picked us up to take us to the Cohasset Yacht Club. Here my friend's daughter took each of the girls out on her sailboat one at a time for a short ride. It's amazing how a 10 year old child can command her own boat with such precision! Unfortunately, all the water in Cohasset was closed to swimming due to bacteria so the next day we went to the shore in Scituate. Here the water has nice big waves, there is a long stretch of sandy beach and a rock that makes a natural slide. We finished our visit with burgers and ice cream at the local street side joint. Then on to Connecticut.
South Lyme Connecticut is the home of Point O' Woods, a beach community where my mother in law's father built a vacation home in the late 40's. We arrived here 3 days ago and will remain until we fly to Brazil next Monday. Our family has enjoyed our visits here for many years but not until I was able to make my income mobile have we been able to stay for longer periods. It's great to let the kids enjoy the same traditions that their parents, grandparents and great grandparents have enjoyed. Ice cream on the beach, beach movies, crabbing and swimming to the dock are but a few of them. Yesterday was spent catching 57 crabs and letting them race back to the water 2 at a time, then finding sea glass. Later we'll go hunting for an abandoned grave in the woods.
The challenge ahead of us lies in reconfiguring our luggage for the trip to Brazil and trying to get the girls to continue practicing their Rosetta Stone Portuguese despite the constant lure of fun with their cousins. I can't tell you how thankful I am to be traveling again, to be able to give our kids these experiences and to be able to maintain my work while doing so.
